I once heard Dr. Laura Schlesinger talk about how bogus self-esteem was the way parents and teachers talk about it.
"We have to give our children good self esteem" callers would say.
Wrong. Self esteem comes from within. You can't give it to anyone. If you want to feel good about yourself, you have to do esteemable acts, she would advise callers. Read More...

Tags: Charity, Gay

So I've been obsessing about something for the past 24 hours and I figured that if I wrote about it, maybe I could exorcise it from my brain pan.
Last night I totally got ditched by 20 people at a party.
Let me back up and explain. Read More...

Tags: Friends, Gay, Anxiety

It is said that what annoys you most in others is often a reflection of what annoys you about yourself. The traits that annoy us most in others are probably the issues we most need to work on the most. Fuck that noise.
I hate flaky behavior. Read More...

Tags: Dating, Friends, Gay